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Last Event Recap: The Love Made You Feel Seen, Safe, and Alive

Last week was fun, this week is about to be even better!

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I AM HIM
July 30, 2025

Fellas,

Every man deserves a good check-in and last week was one of them ones.

We dug deep when we asked our main icebreaker question:

“When was the first time you felt love in a way that made you feel seen, safe, and alive… and when was the first time that same kind of love—or the absence of it—broke something in you? And how did both of those moments shape the way you move now—in your relationships, your friendships, and even with yourself?”

For a lot of us, some of that transformative love came from outside our own families, other male figures, coaches, mentors, people who simply just want to believe in you and pour into you. We talked about how we define love—what it really means to each of us.

For some, love is about accepting people exactly as they are, without trying to change them to benefit ourselves.

For others, love means surrendering control and allowing people to make their own choices, even if it means we might lose them in the process.

These perspectives opened up something real. So we're asking you the same:
When was the first time you felt love that made you feel seen, safe, and alive?

Join us tomorrow where we continue the theme, the feeling that shapes every man.. LOVE.

Bring your story, bring your heart. We’ll see you at the Kickback @5pm PST!

With great peace and gratitude,
I AM HIM Team

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